Adoro Te Devote had an interesting post on equality. I have posted on that topic as well, but something she said triggered a thought in me.

Let me start by saying that I am so inadequate compared to so many men AND women on so many different things. Adoro reminded me of something my dad taught me - at any given task there will always be somebody better than me and somebody worse than me.

So why are people hung up on insisting we are all equal? Here is what we are doing. We have in our mind scores on an each ability or attribute. We also have a certain value/importance for that attribute. We have these unspoken scores on lots of attributes, each with it’s on importance weight. Well if I add up all of my scores weighted by the attribute importance I get my “value” as a person. This conception of determining value is exactly what goes on implicitly in society.

This implicit equation is wrong from a modern relativist perspective. You will get one of two arguments here. One is that there are no real differences - that all differences are made-up to enhance or repress a particular class. There is not really a denial in the equation. There is wishful thinking that there are no differences - because then we would all be interchangable, the same, equal. You will hear others argue that we can’t place “value” on different attributes. Sure there are differences, but who gets to say what “value” each should have. When it comes to particular task, this is nonsense. I want really strong firefighters to rescue me, and really smart doctors, and very compassionate and experienced nurses (I would be terrible at all three jobs).

The implicit equation is also wrong from a Christian perspective. From the Christian perspective the separation comes, not in discussing the value of an individual for a given task our purpose - but in believing that it implies the value of a person. The value of a person is NOT determined by what he or she can do. Value comes in being beloved of God, and it is inherent and infinite. If we can accept that our worth is not tied to what we can or cannot do, but because we are children of God - then we are liberated. Then we can say it is OK that certain people are better suited to different tasks. We no longer need to “prove” our worth. But believing this is not easy, because we keep trying to “prove” ourselves. We have nothing to prove. All we have to do is accept.

You are beloved of God. Nothing that you can do will add to or subtract from this.

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3 Responses to “Equality & Worth”

Anonymous, Said:

Just found your blog.

God bless
Maria
http://www.inhishands.co.uk

Adoro Te Devote, Said:

Great post, and thanks for the link!

I just have to comment on the idea that STILL rankles me, to this day…”I want a strong firefighter to rescue me”, etc. Usually this was applied to MEN, but I have to say, I knew some very strong women, some to whom God did grant great strength, and I also knew some very wimpy men.

“Big” is always equated with “strength”, but in law enf. training, the biggest guy in class, the tough guy, went down screaming in pain during our PT (physical training). And it was also a big guy who fainted during the class in which we watched an autopsy video–a really gory one.

I don’t know but the wiry ones are the strongest…both male and female. In law enf, often it’s good to send in a female cop because MOST men don’t want to fight a woman, but a big guy is a huge challenge and often his presence is a catalyst for a fight. In firefighting, most are also EMT’s, and a woman can really get into some of the smaller spaces (think wrecks), has a softer voice, a softer touch, and many women have children, which experience they apply all over the place. (not to denigrate good fathers who are also in those jobs).

You make wonderful points, but I had to comment on the general attitude many people have. Women can do the job, but yes, we have to work harder to do so, it takes a toll on us, more so than it does the men, yet women are still valuable, can rescue anyone..but we are not clones! We have differences and need to not have to become “men” in order to get through the work day.

I think that’s all I have to say about that…for now. But I’m a woman so I might change my mind… :-)

RobK, Said:

Welcome, Maria!

Adoro - thanks for the comment.
I don’t care how my fire fighters/rescuers do it - I just want them to be able to rescue me. Male, female, big, little - as long as they can do the job.

My real point is that whether someone can be a good fire fighter or not is irrelevant to their value. At least I hope so, as I definitely CANNOT cut it in such an occupation.

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